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What I saw inside

One of the lessons during my time at Avagasso was to begin writing my next book and we had to start with two small sections. Size here is relative :) I wrote it for those who needed to know they are already needed. I have walked alongside my new friends on a path that changed my life. A path that unintentionally led to a  new kind of solitude, one that isn’t easy to explain but fortunately, came with the tools to help me live,  thrive and belong without the need to explain. I couldn’t have understood how impactful it is to discover there is a core and at the core sits me in the f orms that guide who I was and who I am today. None of these versions have known to feel acceptance,  validation or approval by themselves. I can with confidence admit the tools I need are here with me. Leadership feels like existing in a continuous genuine state in whichever reality life brings. I’ve been a survivor, and I’ve built a lot of walls, made a lot of compromises, and very rarely though...
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Leadership coaching: A shout out

Some things are easier to do for others than they are to do for yourself.  For me, showing up; as in really being present, grounded, and intentional has always been one of those things. I’m one of those people in the great battle against people pleasing and if I could “disable that endpoint” my friend, I would. I’m not here pretending I’ve cracked the code as life is not that simple. But I do want to give a shoutout to Sarah Gruneisen 🐉 and her inspiring leadership coaching. I first heard Sarah speak at last year’s SREday Amsterdam (presentation photo below), and since then, I literally couldn’t stop listening! I’m truly honored to be a part of the Avagasso Leadership Landing program and honestly, it’s been a breath of fresh air because Sarah has a way of holding space that makes you feel seen, heard, and challenged;   Halfway into the program, I’m learning how to lead in a way that feels more like me; with clarity, initiative, structure and tonnes of inspiration.   M...

More than one or plus one

I've spent an unhealthy amount of time thinking about how to share this so I'm literally sharing the drafts of my thought process to respect the garden-blog concept 😁 I got the opportunity to share this at Xebia 's annual TED-style knowledge exchange and the event was incredible as always. I'm not sure the recording will go online but this page holds the original idea and the final edit of the poem.  This talk explored belief systems, focusing on one of the most challenging obstacles we face: the struggle to accept grief, help and continue living fully. The closer the loss, the bigger the smack. I don't know if that ever changes but I think it's worth being grateful for overcoming those moments sometimes. It takes a village: (A love Letter to communities) - Lessons: Noobing through everything in life is how a lot of us are doing and for anyone who had the privilege to learn how to live, what a beauty! What does a toy car, a tea flask and a girlfriend have in co...

Narrative 001: No one has a reliability budget

These days, caring for users more than you already do needs a budget. Otherwise, the question raised about reliability in your last meeting, the outage you just recovered from and could be prevented, etc, they all end up backlog residents. So the matter isn't simply about whether you care, a lot of people do, they just can't for various reasons. Some aren't even aware. Capacity and awareness are to be considered with too. This gets translated into care for consumers, users, business and continuity. Then long story short is yes, you need a reliability strategy. It depends. It always does. Insight into reliability is valuable, especially when you can implement before things break. Where I find this especially relevant: If you work with: Containers and Kubernetes Internal developer platforms A team large enough to fight over merge conflicts CI/CD pipelines that break more than they build [if you're not able to ship your ideas from cradle to grave with ease,...

Welcome to SRE Narratives

The love of sharing, giving and the power of community has become the backbone of everything I do. A set of guiding principles if you may, fueled by an insatiable level of curiosity , I explore ideas and conversations on implementing SRE within and around platforms. Think of my content like a garden: the ‘ Garden ’ has raw ideas, work in progress, creative sparks and  finished stories. A Closing Message “This work is entirely inspired by my family’s boundless generosity for which I am eternally grateful.”                                                                                                                         ...